Whether the other is the dreamed man or woman, the beloved mother or father, the pampered brother or sister, the much wanted child, do we have to give everything to someone else? Yes, do we have to wear blinders on what is and what should be? Yes, and when we accept lies, betrayal, humiliation, manipulation, violence, what do we say to ourselves and to the Universe? To live is to choose and to die is to suffer. Yes, every time we make a choice, we manifest our free will, the life force within us. This is how forgetting ourselves for someone else, sacrificing ourselves for someone else, devaluing ourselves for someone else, accepting everything from someone else weakens us, nothing more, nothing less. Because love starts from oneself, it is much greater than what unites people together. Because love is beyond what we feel for each other, it is vibration. Because love is energy, the energy of life in each of us, may we learn to choose ourselves a little more each day. Because it is the inside that controls the outside, being loved implies starting by loving ourselves.